72 Little Sex Secrets To Spice It Up
May 29th, 2010
Bid adieu to humdrum monotonous sex with this fantastic guide that tells you exactly what you should get. These are 72 tips that will definitely unleash the carnal animal in both you and your partner!
Start At The Beginning
1. The colors you choose to surround yourself with during your lovemaking can have more of an impact than you could possibly imagine. Red is the universal color of passion, and always a good color of choice.
2. Ask your partner to tease you around your vagina, and to only penetrate slightly.As most women know, to be teased is just as important as being pleased.
3. Don’t become complacent about the location your lovemaking takes place in, variety really is the spice of life. Try the kitchen table or the kitchen bench. Not only will you find your lovemaking more intense, it may seem like a whole new experience.
4. Have you ever contemplated sex in the bathtub? The bathtub has an erotica of its own and that is the reason so many movies have bathtub scenes and some of them even have bathtub sex scenes! Well, don’t shoot this idea unless you have tried it!
5. Mutual oral sex is a wonderful part of foreplay or even a good substitute for full sex. There are even vibrating toys available that you attach to your tongue enabling you to go that little bit further.
6. The whole process of sex doesn’t have to be just about the intercourse. It can also be a lot of fun and you can learn a lot more about your partner if you involve things like games. There are a lot of great adult board games out there, or just a fun little game of strip poker would do.
7. Are you often left behind during sex? Has your man finished ling before you even reach your highest peak? Here is just one little hint that may help you get there a little quicker. Place a pillow under your lower back, this places the vagina in a much better position.
8. Sick of housework? why not make it fun, put your washing machine to much better use! Have your man sit upon the working machine then straddle him. The vibrations coming off the machine and through your man will make this one hot experience.
9. If you are doing this washing machine thing, you need to select a mode that gives you a long time for enjoyment. Something like a longer wash cycle will really help.
10. If you like using sex toys such as vibrators, butt plugs or butt beads, don’t be afraid to let your partner know. If these things excite you then they are likely to excite your partner as well. The more aroused you both are, the more intense the experience will be.
11. The most important thing is communication. If neither of you vocalise what turns you on, how will you ever know how to please each other? Ask her what she likes, and make sure you tell her what you like. Always let her know how sexy you think she is, if you let her know this then she will feel and act like the sex bomb you know she is.
12. An incredibly important part of foreplay is masturbation. This helps your lady’s body to prepare for the act of intercourse, it also gets her incredibly horny. This can be done with either your fingers or a vibrator or dildo.
13. Learn all the scents of your partners body. Slowly travel over her body inhaling the scent as you go, this will have an unbelievable effect on her. She will feel your breath on her body as you journey along her body.
14. There are certain things that you should feed your man; they can make his cum taste all the more better. A list of things you could include in his diet are lemon, cardamom, peppermint and cinnamon.
15. While we are talking about food, stay away from garlic and onions if you are planning some sex later. They give your breath a foul taste and can put off your man.
16. Onions and garlic can also effect the taste of your sperm, even if you ate them days ago. The same is also true for foods like asparagus, curry and chilli.
17. Try outdoor sex sometime; it is really exhilarating. However, you have to be cautious to do it very carefully or you could be arrested J Try having sex in your own yard when night falls or on a lone highway when you are driving through.
18. Do you have trouble getting your man’s attention when you want it? Is he often too busy to make time for you? How about this nifty trick to get his attention. Go towards him on your knees and with your hands behind your back, start licking his crotch through his pants. He won’t be able to resist for long.
The Right Sex Position Means a Lot
19. The missionary position is the most used one for a reason, it is comfortable for both parties and enables a man to penetrate deeply.
20. The missionary position also has a little secret. When you are laying on your back in this position, your vaginal canal gets folded and becomes shorter making your man feel he has a larger penis.
21. Body to body contact is always highly erotic, try giving your man a body slide. Cover your front with oil or talc and slide up and down his body.
22. Ride your man like a cowgirl. It is a great way to vary your sexual routine and a great way to arouse your man if he feels he is sapped out.
23. Don’t think doggy style is too embarrassing. It is a wonderful pose if you are into anal sex. It also gives him great pleasure because this particular position squeezes his penis on the sides, which is quite a different feeling for him.
24. Have you heard of the spoons position? Try it out. This is probably the most non-stressing positions of all. It only requires you and your partner to lie side by side in the form of a spoon and allowing him to penetrate you anally. You could also alternatively take his penis between your legs and masturbate him.
25. The spoons position can also be used for mutual masturbation. Placing your penis between her thighs and rubbing back and forth is sure to excite you both, you will be rubbing against her clitoris as you do this.
Table Manners & Sex!
26. Bring food items into your erotic experience. Sweet sticky items like chocolate sauce and honey are great. Try licking a lollipop and then rubbing it up and down his penis then licking it off.
27. Fruit and vegetables can also be a lot of fun. If you are both game for it, things like carrots or bananas can be inserted into various orifices.
28. A kinky little game you can play is bedroom bingo. Paint squares on her body using body chocolate or body paints. Number the squares then fill each one with a different type of food. Get her to call out the square number and then you have to eat what is on there.
29. One of the most phallic looking vegetables has to be the cucumber and if you have an extremely cold cucumber, the effects on both you and your partner are unimaginable.
30. Alcohol is also a great sex tool, and no, not drinking it. Bubbly champagne tickles if poured on a naked body.
31. Instead of the old usual sliding ice cubes up and down each others body, why not use frozen fruit instead? This will leave a sweet sticky trail for your tongue to follow.
32. Are you one of those that think a good chocolate is like good sex? Well you are right. Chocolate has many ingredients in it which stimulate the same regions as sex does. Chocolate is a must in any good romp. Cheese also includes a lot of similar chemicals and should not be forgotten.
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33. If you want your man ready to go first thing in the morning for an early session, give him a good kick start with cereal with almonds and lots of apples, it really works!
34. One of the best mood setting foods out there has to be avocado.
35. Champagne was mentioned before as something to pour over your lover but it is also good as an aphrodisiac when drinking it. The taste of a kiss with champagne is wonderful as your tongue tingles when you drink it making your tongue extra sensitive.
36. Always keep some good mints ready. This is handy advice because you don’t know when you will be kissing someone and that could lead to a great experience to remember for a long time.
Unleash Passion
37. You must have heard that all men like to be masturbated by their women. When doing so, don’t be too gentle on him; he won’t like it. Jack his rod in a vertical back and forth direction without bending his penis. Keep a firm grip but don’t bend the penis too much. He will like it this way. You could also ask him to masturbate in front of you and you can do it too and learn from each other J
38. Try giving your man a thrill be deep throating him. This takes a bit of practice but can be enjoyable for you both. Place yourself on your knees in f
39. Most women wont know how to deep throat you or will have had bad experiences in the past. Be patient and if she really doesn’t like it, try just rubbing the head of your penis on the roof of her mouth.
40. A lot of women think that a man likes to have his penis licked up and down like a lolly. This isn’t always the case and if it is something you will have to tell her how you want it.
41. Now, don’t just make it too mechanical. Don’t go on sucking so very predictably that he begins getting bored. Vary your style a bit. Make some noises. Hold his penis in different ways and suck on it. It will be fun for him, and therefore for you as well.
42. Mood music is what is called for. This will help you both relax and focus completely on each other, and will help him get more satisfaction out of what you are doing to him.
43. Don’t let yourself be fooled by stories that men don’t like their anuses explored. They do. But you have to initiate them into it. The best time to do that is when you are giving them oral pleasure. Slide your finger in his ass slowly and gradually work it inside. You could lubricate your finger to do this easily. When inside, start wiggling your finger. He will find it highly pleasurable because you are directly targeting what means the most to him—his prostate.
44. Another great idea is to watch some porn when you are having it off. Actually, make this the prelude to your sex-capade. Sit close to each other and watch his penis slowly grow as he gets into the porn. This is when you take over. If you make your right move at this time, he is going to give you back in the best possible way too.
Carnal Pleasures - Animal Positions
45. Do you know how gorillas do it? These big animals actually spend very little time in the real sexual penetration part of it. But they have a very long foreplay in which they mostly groom each other. You can do this whole ritual as well. Give each other a bath, scrub each other’s back and so on. You will feel the heat coming on!
46. One animal that can teach us all a lesson or two is the seal. Seals have been known to be quite aggressive when having sex; they will actually bite each other. Today, biting has been scientifically proven to be a great sex precursor, because it stimulates blood into the area and makes it more sexually receptive. So, try some gentle biting.
47. Talk about the giant water bug, the male of which can go on asexual episode for as much as a day and a half without stopping! His male ego will definitely be aroused.
Get deep into Your Man’s Mind
48. . When you are using the woman on top position, do a little extra maneuver. Instead of just going up and down as most women do, try going diagonally and sideways as well. This will be really great for your man and you will feel him more inside you. Try it!
49. Have some quick drying alcohol such as vodka ready with you. When you are into the mood for sex, take a swig of it and then lick him on the nipples and the nape of his neck. Then allow the vodka to dry. You could actually assist the whole thing by lightly blowing air on it. He is going to enjoy this to no end.
50. If you are too shy to just go ahead and touch your man, try standing behind him,with your nipples touching his back. Bring your hands to his front and touch his penis and nipples and lightly masturbate him. Gradually increase the force.
51. The classic girl wrap position is always a sure hit. You have to be a bit athletic for it but it is worth the effort; you can allow your man to penetrate you fully.
52. Ask your lady to keep an item of clothing on, this can lead to huge suspense. Maybe she leaves on an item of underwear or a pair of high heel shoes or boots. Maybe suggest she give you a little striptease and then you tell her to stop before she strips it all off.
53. Tell your lady that your greatest fantasy is to have her go down on your while you are asleep or when you have just woken up. Believe me, she will try it and neither of you will be sorry.
54. A great suggestion is to introduce your lady to some vaginal exercises known as kegel. These exercises tighten the vaginal and pelvic floor muscles and increases sensitivity in the vaginal region.
55. Ben-Wa balls are not mere sex toys. If used regularly, your lady can actually make her vagina much harder, tighter and sexier.
56. When you are performing about oral sex, don’t just go about pleasing your man with your mouth. The peripheral things that you do are important. You should use your hands often as well. Use them to stimulate his nipples and his anus and his prostate while you are sucking him. No man will resist that.
57. Masturbation and oral sex become extremely important when you cannot have penetrative sex, such as when you are pregnant or going through your periods. Try looking up new ways for stimulating your partner through such techniques.
58. It truly is a myth that women orgasm only when they are penetrated. It is not important actually. A man can easily stimulate your G spot or clitoris and bring you to a climax. Try educating your man on how to do this.
59. You can use your bra, stocking or panties to great effect. Just take them off sexily and tie his penis, at the shaft. This will really send him into another world. Now make things more exciting by beginning to tease him all over with your tongue and your fingertips. Keep pulling the garment tighter so that he starts feeling more and more of the wonderful sensation.
60. Kinky is great for most people. Try it out. Tie up your man, and lick him all over. If he doesn’t like being done that, you could just hold him by the wrists and have him to yourself, just as you want it.
61. Men who are performing cunnilingus on their female partners, note this—the right movement is to swirl the tongue inside the vagina and then lick upwards. This really stimulates the clitoris.
62. Try making love in front of a mirror, the heightened sensation of watching yourself and your partner in the act is mind blowing.
63. You could go all out and try recording the whole thing on a camera as well. Just the idea that you are making your own porn movie makes most people come.
64. Try the sideways position when your partner is performing oral sex on you. Lie on your side with one leg on the bed and the other leg in the air.
65. Why not try massaging each other and then hold each other very closely. The oil can produce a truly magnificent sensation.
66. Show your man how to find your G-Spot and exactly how to stimulate it to the best effect.
67. Women, do the dishes naked. Men, sit on your computers naked. You don’t know how much you are turning on your partners when you are doing so.
68. You could have some great excitement if you choose the right clothes and the right ambiance. Go shopping and buy some sexy lingerie, something that your partner hasn’t seen you in ever. Then set up some candles and either cook or order some great dinner. When he comes over, give him a surprise. It would set the right mood for a night full of fun.
69. Masturbation is important. You should always masturbate your man during foreplay. It sets the right mood for everything that is to follow.
70. Don’t just use your hands. Hands are important, of course, but then you need to use everything you have got. Use your eyes to see your partner fully, use your nose to smell him, use your tongue to lick him and use your body to seduce him. That’s what makes great sex.
71. have your lady shave or wax off all her pubic hair for a nice treat.
72. Contact with your partner is the most important thing. Touching each other from head to toe. Discovering each others wants and needs. Enjoy every part of each other. This is what makes sex fantastic.
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