The words AA batteries and sex toys work hand in hand. As women have become freer about expressing their sexuality, words such as rabbits, diving dolphins, and power bullets are no longer deemed to be referring to animals or weaponry. These are sex toys and when I bought my first vibrator, who knew that AA batteries would be responsible for improving my relationship?

This was many years before adult party plan or the manufacture of sex toys for wholesale became a billion dollar industry. Back in the good old days when sex toys were powered by gasoline powered generators (joke).

The majority of women are not orgasmic and I was the same, this was until I discovered the joys of a patient partner, a great vibrator and of course, the old faithful AA batteries. I soon learned that it doesn’t hurt to ask for help.

Today I am multi orgasmic, and you will more than likely find that millions of women out there have yet to discover the joy of these relationship savers.

While a rabbit vibe may seem like a frivolous toy, there is a lot to these gadgets that perhaps doesn’t meet the eye. It is frustrating to participate in sexual activity when at the end you are left feeling as though the earth didn’t move for you, and this make many women feel dissatisfied, no matter how many partners they try.

This dissatisfaction may lead to resent, but the days when women were expected to suppress their sexuality are long gone. Men have also wised up and they are aware that they need be intimate and talk about these matters for a healthy relationship.

Marriages have been saved by something as small as a tube of lube purchased at a sex toy party. Highly regarded organisations such as Voices for Planned Parenthood and other societies which are against sexual suppression, are all for the use of sex toys in a relationship - every relationship.

Walking into a darkened sex shop in the worst part of town is not the way to start your relationship with sex toys. Unless the thought of this turns you on - then you are thinking right.

Shy or inhibited people will not find this an easy task, so the new innovation of online shopping or attending adult party plan events is a much better option. Adult party plan is a bit like a Tupperware party, its just the merchandise which is different, and it’s a lot of fun.

These events are hosted by groups of girls and even couples, but the sexual threat is taken completely out of the equation because they are so much fun. You get to examine the toys - not sexually, but by holding them and looking at them, and are also introduce to accoutrements such as lingerie, lotions, potions, and even novelties.