Many sex toys operate off AA batteries and who knew that these would be responsible for improving my relationship. These days women are free to be open about their sexuality and diving dolphins, rabbits, and power bullets are part of many women’s daily vocabulary, but not in reference to animals or armoury – these are popular versions of sex toys.

I bought my first battery driven vibrator shortly after they were converted from being driven by the internal combustion engine – just joking. But I bought it many years ago, long before sex toys were popular items in the bedroom.

Like many women, I was not orgasmic when I had regular sex, but with a lot of good foreplay and a patient partner, plus my AA battery powered toys, practice soon made anything possible.

Enjoying multiple orgasms is within the grasp of every woman, and I know because this is how I am now. Compared to not ever enjoying an orgasm previously, this has made a big difference to my life and sense of fulfilment.

The reason why sex toy protagonists regard these gimmicky toys so highly in terms of relationship matters, is because it is highly frustrating to live a un-orgasmic life. You have a partner bouncing away on top of you who may or may not be aware that the sex is not fulfilling and if you don’t tell him, it will be your fault if you feel dissatisfied or resentful.

This dissatisfaction may lead to resent, but the days when women were expected to suppress their sexuality are long gone. Men have also wised up and they are aware that they need be intimate and talk about these matters for a healthy relationship.

A tube of lube and a diving dolphin can save a marriage, and it seems such a small thing to be able to make such a big change. Adult toys have become a way to do away with sexual suppression and are endorsed by leading organisations – these goodies may be purchased by party plan or sex toy parties and what a fun way this is to learn about them.

Walking into a darkened sex shop in the worst part of town is not the way to start your relationship with sex toys. Unless the thought of this turns you on – then you are thinking right.

Shy or inhibited people will not find this an easy task, so the new innovation of online shopping or attending adult party plan events is a much better option. Adult party plan is a bit like a Tupperware party, its just the merchandise which is different, and it’s a lot of fun.

Women get together to attend these parties and even some open minded couples host them. The sales lady is trained regarding the products and what they do, and it is actually possible to demonstrate items – which means you get to take them out of the box and have a feel, this is not a Roman orgy.